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A junior officer looking for some advice.
« on: August 10, 2011, 12:36:48 »
Dear Milnet.ca,

I have been a long time reader of these forums, but due to the search function I have had my questions answered quite thoroughly each time they arose, thank you. I come to these forums today seeking some advice and honest opinions regarding my current situation. I do not wish to waste anyone's time so this post will be as brief as possible, and I want thank all of you in advance for reading this. I also want to apologize if I misplaced where this should have been posted.

I was recently sworn into my current Unit, and out of respect for the Unit and its Directing Staff (which has been tremendous in my application process, thank you) they will remain unnamed, but I was not given the rank of Ofcd, rather I was allocated as a 2Lt. I am 24, currently finishing a psychology degree, I have no prior military experience, a spoonful of knowledge regarding the military, and I am not BMQ qualified. My concern here is not why I was given the rank 2Lt, life is as wonderful as it is painful so it is not my place to question the reasoning behind that decision whatsoever, this is just a premise to my situation.

My superiors explained that the opportunity presented to me here is unique. Since my enrollment process was hiccuped many times (like everyone else) to which my Unit Directing Staff felt a need to intervene, and literally force my enrollment into completion. The opportunity to enter a summer BMQ was missed, and am now currently scheduled for a Fall BMQ. Concurrently the Unit also is receiving a large influx of new untrained members who are also scheduled for a Fall BMQ. The CO told me that the men and women who I will have the absolute honor and privilege of leading in the future will be with me in the BMQ directly, and many eyes will be watching how I conduct myself during this test. The entire Unit is aware of my situation, so it is clear to me that the way I conduct myself by dress, speech, and overall conduct in these times before my trial by fire will be watched with a close eye by everyone, especially the Senior NCO's. To be fair this is the military, my conduct, dress, etc. will always be watched from now on.

What I am asking of Milnet.ca is for any personal advice on this situation. Everything is an asset here, and I assure all of you that all replies will be considered and heavily weighed upon. Perhaps if the situation is to be repeated in the future, they will be passed along. I give credit where credit is due, I assure all of you that I will not claim any of your ideas as my own for future reference. I swore allegiance to the Queen, Canada, its citizens and their interests, my intentions here are to learn and to do my best to fit into a magnificent system, and to assist others to succeed and do the same. 

The way I tend to view things is like this:

The military will do absolutely fine with or without me, I am not a special character, I am just a man. That being said, I believe if someone else can accomplish a task then to some degree, whether for better or worse, I should be able to accomplish it as well. I accommodate to the system of the military, not the other way around. If in my career I show military intelligence, put my best foot forward, then perhaps after a long and dedicated career I my have the opportunity to put my opinion on the table. The bottom line here is that I know very little, and as a post I read a while ago put it "I don't even know how to lace my boots right."

However the point is I can learn. Knowledge and a willingness to learn is one of the best tools anyone can have, among other things, especially when given for free. When someone speaks to me with the intention to teach, I shut up, pay full attention, and always keep what they say in mind.

I will be put through my paces through training, that is just the way it is, and I am fairly certain even more so because of my situation. I am a firm believer that all things desired and given must be earned. I was very fortunate to have this opportunity and I do not wish to embarrass the people who decided it was my opportunity to have.

With that being said I am a people first type of leader and a team player, and I must give thanks to the men and women of Soldiers of Fitness Boot camp who helped me cultivate that style of thinking. I must recommend that program to anyone considering any sort of career that involves leadership.

This post went much longer than anticipated to which I apologize, and I appreciate your time reading this, and look forward to any and all responses.

Thank you.

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #1 on: August 10, 2011, 13:24:11 »
As you said, the eyes are always upon you.  Just be quiet, do what is asked of you and set the example for your subordinates and you should do fine.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #2 on: August 10, 2011, 13:37:55 »
Not meaning to step out of my lane here, but if you're an Officer you should be doing BMOQ and not BMQ, therefore you won't be on the same course as your future subordinates. Maybe I misread your post though.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #3 on: August 10, 2011, 13:45:51 »
Reserve Officers do BMQ with the NCMs and the leadership portion of BMOQ. His assessment is correct.

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #4 on: August 10, 2011, 13:49:17 »
Reserve Officers do BMQ with the NCMs are the leadership portion of BMOQ. His assessment is correct.

oh I see. Ignore my post then.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #5 on: August 10, 2011, 13:51:04 »
My first word of advice would be to closely follow the principles of military writing:

Accuracy
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Logic

My intent is not to insult you but I did find it a little difficult to ascertain the specific advice you are seeking.  My assumption is you are seeking wisdom on how you should conduct yourself differently as an untrained 2nd Lieutenant vice an untrained Officer Cadet (or the expectations of your superiors, subordinates and peers).  The simple answer is - no difference.  You already seem to have some sense of what will be expected of you.

A memorable quote from one of the Warrants instructing on my Phase 2  (decades ago) to the number of DEO 2nd Lts (as opposed to the remainder of us who were OCdts from OCTP) was " . . . 2nd Lts are just thick OCdts".

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #6 on: August 10, 2011, 15:25:33 »
Thank you all, and this is exactly what I was referring too.

My assumption is you are seeking wisdom on how you should conduct yourself differently as an untrained 2nd Lieutentant vice an untrained Officer Cadet (or the expections of your superiors, subordinates and peers). 


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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #7 on: August 10, 2011, 15:29:24 »
Reserve Officers do BMQ with the NCMs and the leadership portion of BMOQ. His assessment is correct.

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Naval Reserve Officers do BMOQ only.

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #8 on: August 10, 2011, 15:36:16 »
Naval Reserve Officers do BMOQ only.

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #9 on: August 10, 2011, 15:39:20 »
As you said, the eyes are always upon you.  Just be quiet, do what is asked of you and set the example for your subordinates and you should do fine.

Good advice from a man that's been there, done that and has several T Shirts.

I'll offer my  :2c:

You have NCOs to do business for you. Tell them what you want done, their lefts and rights of arc and get out of their way.
Your 2 I/C should be a senior Sgt or WO - he/she should have the wherewithall to direct you, gently, with words of advice and on occassion...some "counselling". Once again, tell him/her what to do and get out of the road.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #10 on: August 10, 2011, 15:52:28 »
I will echo Mr. Seggie's advice - seek the advice of the NCOs, they will give it freely, and if they see that you are a man of integrity they will do whatever it takes to help you succeed.  Their counsel is priceless.

Don't worry about the OCdt/2Lt thing - both ranks are treated relatively equally - as people in the training system with varying levels of knowledge who can safely be assumed to know absolutely nothing.  Every officer you will ever see in the CF was there at some point.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #11 on: August 10, 2011, 17:24:56 »
On another note, about your conduct during BMQ, I will say this:

While you are on BMQ with your future subordinates, they are your peers. There is no difference between any of you. Do you best to perform, in all aspects, and carry as much weight (figuratively... and sometimes literally) as you can, because that is what everyone expects of everyone in the military anyway. If you can prove to them that you can be a good fireteam partner, a good teammate, and a good soldier, they will be much more willing to let you lead them when the times comes that they are your subordinates.

I would look at this as an opportunity to prove to your future subordinates that you can do the things you expect of them. You're pretty lucky in some ways there, so don't bomb it ;)

And I hope some of the more experienced members who have already commented will shed light on what I just said, as my 2 cents is only worth a fraction of theirs.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #13 on: August 10, 2011, 22:15:30 »
Do the course.  Make sure you do well and place as close to the top as possible.  This is your chance to shine. People have long memories, especially your future troops and if you are a lazy wanker on course they will remember it and bring it up in the future at the most unkind of moments when you are responsible for leading them.

Treat them like your peers whilst training but I would remain somewhat reserved and careful in social situations as to avoid photo's from the weekend course Jagermister shooter party getting back to your Adjutant or CO. If things start to get *truly*  dodgy (i.e. jimmy is doing drugs in the washroom or a directing staff member is banging one of the candidates, rather than the regular low level soldier will be soldier BS)  just request to your section commander to speak with the first officer in your chain of command and abdicate your QR&O 4.02(e) responsibility by reporting the issue to someone in rank superior to you.  No matter how many course-romances I have seen start on basic training... do not, I say again, do not fall into this trap for all sorts of good reasons.

At the end of the course they should say... hell, 2Lt XXX is not such a bad guy.  I think he will make a good officer once done his training and I would follow him.  Rather than.  2Lt XXX is a tosser... he is a drunken, lazy, womanizing dog fornicator who lacks any true military insight....  I hope he buys it on phase training.

Good luck.  Train hard. You have been given an excellent opportunity.  I have been in a similar situation  and I survived  :nod:

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #14 on: August 10, 2011, 23:10:33 »
Good advice from a man that's been there, done that and has several T Shirts.

I'll offer my  :2c:

You have NCOs to do business for you. Tell them what you want done, their lefts and rights of arc and get out of their way.
Your 2 I/C should be a senior Sgt or WO - he/she should have the wherewithall to direct you, gently, with words of advice and on occassion...some "counselling". Once again, tell him/her what to do and get out of the road.
Don't be a follower, be a leader.

Good advice, but I'll add a caveat.  You must learn and understand what it is your subordinates (including the NCOs and warrant officers) do.  I don't mean get down in the weeds and try to do it better than they can.  You will have too much on your plate to do that anyway.  However, you need to learn the technical aspects of your profession so you can tell whether your subordinates are doing it right.  Just because you don't actually dig the latrine doesn't mean you don't have to know how it's supposed to be dug.  Although there is a great deal of truth to the idea that NCOs are the backbone of the organization, the reality is that some parts of that backbone are not as strong as perhaps they should be.  It will be your job to identify and correct the weaknesses.  Not all of your NCOs will be God's gift to the Army (gasp! I said it!  ;D) and you may have to deal with a few lesser ones (WARNING:  2Lts are not normally in a position to make this judgement, so be careful!!!).  Learn from them, but remember that you are still in charge.  Be flexible and receptive to advice and your NCOs will respect you for it.  However, don't be a puppet.  They won't respect you for that.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #15 on: August 11, 2011, 01:03:14 »
Here is some free advice from somebody that has been "exposed" to the flawed training system by witnessing what happens to some junior reserve officers on the BMQ(R) courses. Listen to orders. React to orders. Ask intelligent questions. Don't make the same mistake twice and for the love of God don't try to tell a SNCO that you can do the whole course on a medical chit. Believe me it happened again summer! Valiant effort though.(sarcasm) Some did well others not so much. Good luck and be fit!
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #16 on: August 11, 2011, 02:57:32 »
Dear Milnet.ca,

I have been a long time reader of these forums, but due to the search function I have had my questions answered quite thoroughly each time they arose, thank you. I come to these forums today seeking some advice and honest opinions regarding my current situation. I do not wish to waste anyone's time so this post will be as brief as possible, and I want thank all of you in advance for reading this. I also want to apologize if I misplaced where this should have been posted.

I was recently sworn into my current Unit, and out of respect for the Unit and its Directing Staff (which has been tremendous in my application process, thank you) they will remain unnamed, but I was not given the rank of Ofcd, rather I was allocated as a 2Lt. I am 24, currently finishing a psychology degree, I have no prior military experience, a spoonful of knowledge regarding the military, and I am not BMQ qualified. My concern here is not why I was given the rank 2Lt, life is as wonderful as it is painful so it is not my place to question the reasoning behind that decision whatsoever, this is just a premise to my situation.

My superiors explained that the opportunity presented to me here is unique. Since my enrollment process was hiccuped many times (like everyone else) to which my Unit Directing Staff felt a need to intervene, and literally force my enrollment into completion. The opportunity to enter a summer BMQ was missed, and am now currently scheduled for a Fall BMQ. Concurrently the Unit also is receiving a large influx of new untrained members who are also scheduled for a Fall BMQ. The CO told me that the men and women who I will have the absolute honor and privilege of leading in the future will be with me in the BMQ directly, and many eyes will be watching how I conduct myself during this test. The entire Unit is aware of my situation, so it is clear to me that the way I conduct myself by dress, speech, and overall conduct in these times before my trial by fire will be watched with a close eye by everyone, especially the Senior NCO's. To be fair this is the military, my conduct, dress, etc. will always be watched from now on.

What I am asking of Milnet.ca is for any personal advice on this situation. Everything is an asset here, and I assure all of you that all replies will be considered and heavily weighed upon. Perhaps if the situation is to be repeated in the future, they will be passed along. I give credit where credit is due, I assure all of you that I will not claim any of your ideas as my own for future reference. I swore allegiance to the Queen, Canada, its citizens and their interests, my intentions here are to learn and to do my best to fit into a magnificent system, and to assist others to succeed and do the same. 

The way I tend to view things is like this:

The military will do absolutely fine with or without me, I am not a special character, I am just a man. That being said, I believe if someone else can accomplish a task then to some degree, whether for better or worse, I should be able to accomplish it as well. I accommodate to the system of the military, not the other way around. If in my career I show military intelligence, put my best foot forward, then perhaps after a long and dedicated career I my have the opportunity to put my opinion on the table. The bottom line here is that I know very little, and as a post I read a while ago put it "I don't even know how to lace my boots right."

However the point is I can learn. Knowledge and a willingness to learn is one of the best tools anyone can have, among other things, especially when given for free. When someone speaks to me with the intention to teach, I shut up, pay full attention, and always keep what they say in mind.

I will be put through my paces through training, that is just the way it is, and I am fairly certain even more so because of my situation. I am a firm believer that all things desired and given must be earned. I was very fortunate to have this opportunity and I do not wish to embarrass the people who decided it was my opportunity to have.

With that being said I am a people first type of leader and a team player, and I must give thanks to the men and women of Soldiers of Fitness Boot camp who helped me cultivate that style of thinking. I must recommend that program to anyone considering any sort of career that involves leadership.

This post went much longer than anticipated to which I apologize, and I appreciate your time reading this, and look forward to any and all responses.

Thank you.

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #17 on: August 11, 2011, 08:29:51 »
My first word of advice would be to closely follow the principles of military writing:

Accuracy
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Clarity
Relevance
Logic

My intent is not to insult you but I did find it a little difficult to ascertain the specific advice you are seeking.  My assumption is you are seeking wisdom on how you should conduct yourself differently as an untrained 2nd Lieutenant vice an untrained Officer Cadet (or the expectations of your superiors, subordinates and peers).  The simple answer is - no difference.  You already seem to have some sense of what will be expected of you.

A memorable quote from one of the Warrants instructing on my Phase 2  (decades ago) to the number of DEO 2nd Lts (as opposed to the remainder of us who were OCdts from OCTP) was " . . . 2nd Lts are just thick OCdts".

edited to correct typo

I would agree completely with the above. I can only add the old saying "two ears, one mouth - to be used in that ratio".
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« Reply #18 on: August 15, 2011, 08:39:20 »
I'm pretty sure the recruiting centre made a mistake.  Are you going to St. Jean for your course?  Here's the thing, 2Lt is a Commissioned rank, where Ocdt is not.  Here's what I think happened:

- You're a DEO hire (you have a degree).  That entitles you to enter, after basic training, as a 2Lt.

- As a DEO hire, you are supposed to be signed up as an Ocdt, but paid at the rate of 2Lt.  If you complete basic training, you are then promoted to 2Lt retroactive to the date you signed on the dotted line.

- Your recruiting staff probably saw the bit about you being a 2Lt effective your hire date and assumed that meant your a 2Lt.

The simple fact is, if you don't have a commission, or one hasn't been ordered for you, you shouldn't be wearing the rank of 2Lt.  It's something that will get sorted out really quickly at St. Jean, so I wouldn't worry too much about it right now, but it would be worth mentioning to someone.

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« Reply #19 on: August 15, 2011, 08:54:48 »
He is a reservist, doing a weekend fall BMQ. Their entry plans are different.
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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #20 on: August 15, 2011, 11:05:13 »
Fair, but 2Lt is still a commissioned rank.  No commission = no 2Lt.

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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2011, 11:11:20 »
The simple fact is, if you don't have a commission, or one hasn't been ordered for you, .....

Fair, but 2Lt is still a commissioned rank.  No commission = no 2Lt.

Are you aware that being presented a Commissioning Scroll is not the actual act of being commissioned?


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Re: A junior officer looking for some advice.
« Reply #22 on: August 15, 2011, 11:20:44 »
Are you aware that being presented a Commissioning Scroll is not the actual act of being commissioned?

I'd be in trouble if it was.  I still don't have mine, should have gotten it in 2005.
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« Reply #23 on: August 15, 2011, 11:55:42 »
Yes, I'm aware of that.  I'm also aware that the commission is not granted until successful completion of the basic training course (even if it's post dated to before when the course began).  Listen, I don't really care if this guy wears the rank of 2lt or not, but as an untrained hire he should be going through basic as a Ocdt.  Whatever though, if his unit wants to do it this way, that's their call.

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« Reply #24 on: August 15, 2011, 12:46:43 »
I'd be in trouble if it was.  I still don't have mine, should have gotten it in 2005.

Ask your Chain of Command to request it from the Director of Honours and Recognition (DH&R). 
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