Hey all,
it wasn't so much for the 'face value' of the information being given to me considering that, its actually a glimmer of hope knowing that (although in different circumstances) people have gone through similar to what I have and have been accepted into the Forces. I started looking into booking an appointment for a Psych Eval just for extra ammo in case Ottawa denies me. George, you are a wealth of information, so from what you've seen/experienced with the Forces, would you recommend just waiting to see if Ottawa sends the 'Medical Denied' paper before I blow my cash on a Psych or... I've tried speaking to the Med Tech here, there is only one and she travels between this CFRC and another one about 4 hours away, so reaching her has proved difficult. She didn't comment too much other than passing me the forms to bring to the doctor to sign. I understand that a doctor's note is a requirement, and my health and the safety of those I will serve with is of the utmost importance, but will the Med Examiners look at the notes from my doctor and also my file and see "Well, he was a confused 20year old, now he's a father of 2 and husband who has gotten his s#it together and his doctor signed an 'OK'" Do they look past the medical file in this regard? I would understand if they denied me, my intention walking into the Medical Exam was to give her my history, and I had'have no intention of deceiving anyone to get in. My doc thinks I'm fine, I feel as if I'm fine, former recruiters (family) wouldn't put their rep on the line to say I'm fine, if I'm not (they agree that it was time I should sign up). I'll prove to the Forces that I'm good to go if Ottawa says no.
Everyone has something dwelling in their past that they're not proud of, I just hate mine affecting my future.
That was my rant. Phew.
As always, you are all an awesome wealth of information and an inspiration.